Understanding Your Style: Part 5 of 6: Speed Sorter or Slow Poke
Part 5 of 6: Understanding Your Style - Speed Sorter or Slow Poke
Learning to understand your style, and the styles of those you dwell with, will increase your success and bring more peace and joy during your organizing ventures. Which style are you?
Speed Sorter
Decisions come easily for you
You see things as black or white, yes or no
You work well on your own
You are goal oriented
You are able to focus on a task and get it done
You want to get what you are working on finished so you can move onto the next thing
Patience may not be your strong suit and may be something you’ll need to work on especially if you live with a Slow Poke
Slow Poke
Decisions are hard because there are so many factors to consider
You see different options
You want time to consider things
You easily get distracted and can go off on bunny trails
Being reminded of what matters most in the scheme of what you are trying to accomplish can help you get back on track
It may take you many tries to get something completed
Fear of making a decision you’ll regret may keep you from making any decision
Patience and encouragement from others can help you move ahead and gain confidence in your ability to make the right decisions as you plow through the organizing process
Having a friend or professional organizer assist you can be very beneficial in helping you make decisions and reach organizational goals
These two styles, if residing in family members in the same home, can cause much tension. Seek to understand your different styles and remember: different does not mean one of you is right and the other is wrong, it just means you are different. Agreeing on key goals for your current organizing project and talking about how to handle expected struggles ahead of time will give you a greater chance of heading off problems and reaching your goals. Hiring an organizer to help you find balance, compromise and agreement may also be worthwhile if you have tried and not made progress in the past.
Ahead in the Understanding Your Style series:
Part 6 - Keeps or Goes
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